The Moment of Impact: Falling in Love with The Vow

Paige: I vow to help you love life, to always hold you with tenderness and 

to have the patience that love demands, to speak when words are 

needed and to share the silence when they are not and to live within 

the warmth of your heart and always call it home.

Leo: I vow to fiercely love you in all your forms, now and forever. 

I promise to never forget that this is a once in a lifetime love.

The fact that The Vow featured a collaboration of two of my favorite actors from two of my favorite romantic movies made me really excited to watch the movie since the release of its trailer. Here, Channing Tatum (from Dear John) and Rachel McAdams (from The Notebook) created a sweetling, lush tandem one will surely fall in love with.

What I love about this movie is that it presented love in its best form. From the time Page (Rachel McAdams) met Leo (Channing Tatum), the life they had before they met an accident, Leo trying to win Page back and the new life they have gained after fate took its turn.

I would love to meet someone like Page—responsible, independent, artistic and carefree. Someone who is willing to take risks and surrender the ‘best’ for her own interest. Someone who is courageous enough to face life at its dynamic form.

Page and Leo’s wedding was also interesting. Since they are both artists, a wedding in a museum is better than perfect for them (though it’s prohibited). Hence, their vows can really make you feel the romance at its highest.

But what happened after the accident was so hurtful for Leo. And I admire his courage and persistence to win Page’s memory back. The scene when Leo almost give up in trying to regain Page’s memory was very moving (in a cheesy note, I felt the pain!). And I understand that because it’s all upon him—that his actions are those that which can make or break their relationship. 

But love will conquer everything. Sound cliché, but that is how it really goes.

Favorite Scenes:

When Leo invited the bewildered Page as if they’ve just met for the first time.

Their monthly ritual of going to the nippy beach at night, soaking their naked bodies in the very cold water and finding pleasure in it.

 Moreover, their house was really cool. It’s not that elegant but it’s fancy and kind’a reflected my interests. :D

Amor Patria: A Review of Gawad Kalinga Founder Tony Meloto's 'Builder of Dreams'

 “When your dreams came true, you are great. But if others’ dreams came true because of you, you are noble.”

Gawad Kalinga Founder Tony Meloto's Builder of Dreams

In a third world country like the Philippines it is undeniable that negative political and social issues are prevalent, as well as the intricate challenges faced by Filipinos all left undone; and indeed, “transforming leaders” are needed for they bear the good heart enriched with volunteerism and love for others. These are those people who are propelled into meaningful actions and purposes. Despite the fact that a united prayer can make this all settled, Gawad Kalinga founder Antonio “Tony” Meloto proved doing more than this can make everything better.

As Tony Meloto’s living revolves over his life as an entrepreneur and a Couples for Christ servant, being a loving father of five and a caring Lolo of three grandchildren, he felt the need to do something that could make the slum-dwellers’ life better. He desired to mold his ideals and goals into something that would benefit larger groups of Filipino people. And one of his ways in order to achieve this is to write the book “Builder of Dreams” which he dedicated to Ninoy and Cory because their nationalism has inspired him since 1986; when democracy was restored in the country.

The “Builder of Dreams” is “about faith of common believers who choose to act rather than to preach, about citizens wanting to correct what has been corrupted rather than blame, about people who chose hope over cynicism by planting their dreams on the ground and learning to do it with others.”  Through this book, Tony Meloto had reflected what patriotism and good deeds are truly all about. The book embodied the hope of Filipinos who dreamt better times after living as second class citizens within 400 years. It definitely emerged the Filipino spirit and unleashed its greatness. The book also recognized the growing armies of Filipinos who vowed to bring the dream together.

                His primary goal is to revive what was lost and to bring the best out of it. He narrated how his efforts created the very first Gawad Kalinga village. It transformed the ever known Bagong Silang in Caloocan City into a neighborhood that endowed new, safe, and attractive homes for the needy; unlike how it looked like before— where gangsters, young and old, and crimes sickened the place. He shared how his actions paved way for the rehabilitation of the youth who had led wayward lives. His movement blossomed; adults learned acceptable ways of earning money and the kids who were once crime-makers decided to go to school. “There was no blueprint, no road map and no budget when we ventured into unknown territory, just a lot of faith, a strong intuition and the conscience to do what was good and right; the impulse to act and the instinct to survive.”

                The book sparked hope and consciousness as this country is a gift from God. It identified proper recognition of who the real character is and who will support him on the play of his objective. “The government is not our enemy; neither is business or rich landowners or, the criminals in the urban slums, and the rebels in the countryside. Poverty is our enemy, along with all the evils that cause it—the peaceful way to vanish this is to discover winning formula where rich and poor benefit from caring and sharing.”

                Tony Meloto has never been a fictional-story-writer or even a superb novel author; but his writing style is real good. It caught souls that will soon embolden nobility. Each word reflected how reality looks like. It helped readers to understand what Philippines has to be and how Filipinos should be. Sharing real life stories in the book also helped Meloto in his pursuance of his aspirations and beliefs.

                In this book, Tony also revealed his heart-melting sacrifices just for the accomplishment of his vision. Sacrifices not only in his own self, but as well to his family, friends and the usual society he’s living with; the parameter where true-blooded Filipinos dwell. And these encumbrances caused him to attain what he was aiming for.

                “In writing this book, I remember with fondness the friends I have lost along the way. I carry the burden of losing people I treasured, in exchange for the friendship to the poor. The fault is mine, but the gain is mine as well. In time we will be wiser and we will gain our friendship so nothing is lost at all.”

Gawad Kalinga villages in the Philippines. 

                The three major steps in the attainment of the goal— Social Justice, Social Artistry and Social Progress, as designed by Meloto’s Builders of Dreams, are therefore the key steps to help every Filipino for major survival and to make a big leap on our journey way back home—to a greater country that we are proud of and with the people that we loved and always will.

Never stop hoping for our country,

Don’t stop caring for our people,

Demand greatness from yourself as a Filipino,

Inspire greatness in other Filipinos.

Minamahal kita, Pilipinas!

Dear John: Life, Love and Lost

Nicholas Sparks has become a trade name for a certain kind of love story—lush, bittersweet, carefree, passionate—semi-sweet tear-jerker stories that cause heartbreak intact; all in one heartfelt tome that makes us all flip the other page. Stories that totter on the edge of something sticky, but pull us back in the real world.

Dear John is of a sad romance and of a father-son reconciliation theme. A surprise third-act-twist introducing a surprise tragedy weeping the romantic joy of The Notebook, Message in a Bottle and A Walk To Remember. A Nicholas Sparks masterpiece about love that aches sometimes but still continues to exist. A great work of art with the same semi-sweet sensibility.

            Despite its being obvious with the common genre Sparks used to get with, it still poses another kind of clash with another saving grace to procure. With similar comfort of his words, the broach of the ironies of life and the great life-lessons that can be earned.

Dear John paperback edition.

Dear John is about a buff-stuff soldier John Tyree who meets the love of his life: the gorgeous goodie-goodie type Savannah Lynne Curtis while on leave from the army. Their mutual attraction flourishes despite of their differences over the summer. While John’s away, Savannah waits longingly. But 9/11 changes everything. And sadly, “Dear John,” the letter read… with the two words, a heart was broken and two lives were hanged forever.

This book is not just around the blooming garland of montages—walks on the beach, first kiss in the rain, gazing at the moon, writing letters, waiting for them—but has yet another theme, patriotism, whose impossible pull creates a further problem for the main characters. It explains how army is keeping away a soldier from true love and from the other things that they desire.

Nicholas Sparks writing style is still inevitable, with the great help of the unique personalities of the characters. It steered away from the usual sure tragedy that befalls between the character and a joyful ending ahead.

All the Sparks elements are there—the small town setting with beaches and pier, the “symbolisms” of love, great precedence for fathers and the “tragedy” that will test everyone.

Dear John reflects real life circumstances as well. The father-and-son knot with John’s relationship with his father, a coin-collector who is chatty about his interest (coins) but turns away speechless from normal human interaction like his close relationship with his son. The common teenage matter, as of John’s case, rebellion, school problems, being troublesome and promiscuity—but the resolves in the latter and changed for good.

The whole premise written is well-founded. It succeeded in tapping the emotions of readers for most of us have gone through a moment of a long distance relationship. The genuine chemistry between the writing style and the story is surely a vibe that makes this book different from other Spark’s offerings.

After all, it is another Nicholas Sparks’ magnum opus; despite the basic formula, the book has something more to extend.

The Art of Parkour: Take Risks, Flaunt!

Given its birth on France, parkour is now a magnet for many willpowered enthusiasts making its way on a grown popularity. It is such a new mix for negotiating with obstacles—a blend of adopted gymnastics, athletics, free climbing and accelerated tai-chi movements executed on the move.

Parkour is the flight in the fight-or-flight response; it is an enhancement scheme for achieving self-confidence, critical thinking skills keen spatial awareness, leadership adeptness, energetic or virile senses and moral attitude. This is the perfect sport where winning splendid, flexible, nimble, skillful, enduring and resistant body are given emphasis.

From http://svjetlost.deviantart.com

The term Parkour was coined by David Belle with his friend Hubert Kounde from the classical obstacle course method of military training proposed by Georges Herbert—the parcours de combatant. They also come-up with the term “Traceurs” as a term for Parkour enthusiasts which was originally from a slang French verb “tracer” meaning “to go fast.”

According to the American Parkour Community Definition, parkour is not just quite a sport; it requires physical discipline in order to be geared with efficiency and speed. Parkour requires consistent, disciplined training more on functional strength, physical conditioning, balance, creativity, fluidity, precision and looking beyond the traditional use of objects. Traceur’s training focuses on safety, longetivity, personal responsibility and self-improvement. It discourages reckless behavior, showing-off and dangerous stunts.

From http://masteryan.deviantart.com

While they also value community, humility, positive collaboration, knowledge sharing and the importance of play in human life, they also demonstrate respect for all people, places and spaces.

Parkour imparts sheer athleticism and ideal sportsmanship. An effective traceur redistributes body weight and uses momentum to perform seemingly difficult or impossible maneuvers at great speed. But more than this, physical and mental elements are the real appeal of parkour to every traceurs. 

Gustatory Delight: The Baby Back Ribs of Johanna’s Grille

Johanna’s Grill is located at the heart of Batangas City— along P. Burgos street where most of commercial establishments around the city are located.

The restaurant is classical Filipino-themed. What I like about their resto are the very eye-catching Capiz windowpanes and chandeliers.

Their specialty— their own version of fall-off-the-bones Baby Back Ribs with garlic rice and corn kernels! Something to die for, really. Their version of this American recipe is really tender, fairly spicy and very tasty. This is something you have to try for yourself!

Their homemade sweet Blueberry cheesecake is also remarkable!

Way Back Home

I just tried capturing Bokehs while in the car going home. I used Canon 450D for these photos. Enjoy! :)